Arnold's Mistress Pregnant At Her Baby Shower

Arnold Schwarzenegger's baby mama had a baby shower before his kid was born, and some of Arnold's staff were front and center.

Apparently Mildred "Patty" Baena knew the sex of the baby because the color scheme at the shower was blue.

Among the 15 guests at Patty's home ... Alicia, a cook who worked for Arnold and Maria. She's wearing gray sweatpants.

Among the gifts for Patty -- who was 8 months pregnant at the time -- a baby stroller.

We're told Arnold and Maria sent lots of gifts for the baby.

The boy -- now a young teen -- looks like the spitting image of Arnold.

Maria Shriver said in a statement"This is a painful and heartbreaking time,"

THE estranged wife of Arnold Schwarzenegger has described revelations of his infidelity as "painful and heartbreaking", and has been publicly supported by Oprah Winfrey at the taping of her final television show.

The secret behind the breakdown of one of America's most unlikely power marriages was revealed yesterday when Mr Schwarzenegger admitted fathering a child with one of his wife's longest-serving household employees.

Ms Shriver attended Ms Winfrey's TV show finale in the wake of the scandal. She arrived on stage with Winfrey's best friend, Gayle King, and told Winfrey her talk show host had ''given me love, support, wisdom and most of all the truth''.

Shriver said she knew she wasn't ''alone in receiving those gifts''.
Ms Shriver, a niece of John F.Kennedy, moved out of the mansion she shared with Mr Schwarzenegger in Los Angeles shortly after he told her of his infidelity. Last week the couple announced that they had separated after 25 years of marriage.
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"Arnold Schwarzenegger"-The Wedding Ring Disappears

World knew about his separation ... Arnold Schwarzenegger broke out his street bike and went for a ride with his bodyguard in L.A. yesterday ... sans wedding ring.

But Arnold WAS wearing his ring on Sunday ... the day before the couple announced their split.

Meanwhile, Maria Shriver has been ringless since mid-March ... right after Maria posted a cryptic video on YouTube asking her fans for advice on how to "transition" into the next phase of her life.

As you already know, Arnold and Maria announced their separation last night ... and in their statement, they claimed they've been living apart for several weeks.

Arnold Schwarzenegger and Maria Shriver have spent a lifetime and their entire marriage in the public eye, but the joint announcement of their separation rather than a race to the courthouse could signal a more private breakup.

The former bodybuilder turned action star and the television journalist each entered their marriage 25 years ago with separate fortunes and legacies, and the script for whether and how they end that union largely depends on decisions they've already made.

At stake are the pair's children, millions of dollars, memorabilia and accolades from each of their on-camera careers, and something that gets quickly trashed in a high-profile, public divorce -- their reputations.

The couple announced they had split in a joint statement Monday evening but have not filed formal court papers.


On Tuesday night, in his first public comments since the announcement, Schwarzenegger thanked friends and family for an outpouring of support. "We both love each other very much," Schwarzenegger said at a Los Angeles event marking Israeli independence. "We are taking one day at a time."

The couple's union had at times a storybook feel and the couple often waxed publicly about their love for one another, although there have been situations that would strain any marriage.

Since his term as California governor ended in early January, Schwarzenegger has hopscotched around the world, his wife nowhere in sight. Shriver posted three Twitter updates on April 26, their 25th wedding anniversary, without mentioning the milestone.

While Schwarzenegger, 63, appeared confident about the future since exiting politics, cutting movie deals and fashioning himself as a global spokesman for green energy, Shriver, 55, known for her confidence, seemed unsettled.

Shriver appears without a wedding ring in videos posted recently on YouTube and talks about stress in her life, the weight of expectations and the search for faith in a troubled world.

If the pair are contemplating a divorce, then chances are both have already consulted with attorneys.

Monday's statement may be the first move in a playbook developed by high-profile couples hoping to avoid their breakups being dragged through the courts and tabloids, said Los Angeles-based family law attorney Steve Mindel.

The strategy involves releasing a statement before any court papers are filed, Mindel explained, and then having the matter heard through private mediation. The result is an agreement that doesn't require both sides to publicly reveal their finances, although Schwarzenegger and Shriver are not strangers to public disclosure.